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Enkel eines türkischen Bergmanns: Alle lieben Pfleger Semih

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Für Margot Meyer (85) ist Semih Ilhan wie ein Enkel. Der Urenkel türkischer Gastarbeiter unter Tage arbeitet in Oberhausen als Altenpfleger.

Für Margot Meyer (85) ist Semih Ilhan wie ein Enkel. Der Urenkel türkischer Gastarbeiter unter Tage arbeitet in Oberhausen als Altenpfleger.

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Oberhausen.  Semih Ilhan, (Ur-)Enkel türkischer Bergleute, pflegt Alte in Oberhausen. Warum der 22-Jährige selbst seine Mutter aber nicht ins Heim geben will.

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Aus den Lebensgeschichten der Alten lernt Semih mehr als in der Schule

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„Ein kleines Danke ist schon eine große Nummer“

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Seine eigene Mutter würde Semih „niemals ins Heim geben“

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