Plötzlich ist das Kind weg: Krefelder schreibt über Erlebtes

Der Krefelder Schriftsteller Reinhard Strüven hat das Buch „Jul - Die Geschichte einer Suche“ geschrieben.
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Krefeld. Die Ex-Frau ist mit der gemeinsamen Tochter untergetaucht. Reinhard Strüven aus Krefeld hat das erlebt – und darüber geschrieben.
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Untergetaucht in Polen
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Anzeige wegen Kindesentführung
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Urlaub auf Usedom
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=tuspoh?'hu´'hu´'hu´ Kvm — Hftdijdiuf fjofs Tvdif=0tuspoh?
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