70 Jahre Grundgesetz

Regenbogenfamilie: Lesbisches Paar kämpfte ums Elternrecht

Eine ganz normale Familie: Andrea (links) und Nicole Neubauer (rechts) mit ihrem Sohn Paul Frederic in ihrer Wohnung in Duisburg.

Eine ganz normale Familie: Andrea (links) und Nicole Neubauer (rechts) mit ihrem Sohn Paul Frederic in ihrer Wohnung in Duisburg.

Foto: Lukas Schulze

Duisburg.   Das Grundgesetz stellt die Familie unter besonderen Schutz. Gilt das auch für Regenbogenfamilien? Die Neubauers aus Duisburg finden: Nicht immer.

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Das Grundgesetz schützt Ehe und Familie

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Stiefkindadoption: Ein langer Prozess

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„Unser Sohn war rechtlich überhaupt nicht abgesichert.“

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Eine gültige Geburtsurkunde fehlt noch immer

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>>>INFO: Geplante Änderung des Abstammungsrechts

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