Demenz

Vergiss mein nicht: Duisburger Café lädt Demenzkranke ein

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Petra van Geldern, Eugenie Czarmecki und Lisa Büschleb (v.l.n.r) leiten seit über sieben Jahren ehrenamtlich das Demenzcafé „Vergiss mein nicht“ in Duisburg.

Petra van Geldern, Eugenie Czarmecki und Lisa Büschleb (v.l.n.r) leiten seit über sieben Jahren ehrenamtlich das Demenzcafé „Vergiss mein nicht“ in Duisburg.

Foto: Lars Heidrich / FUNKE Foto Services

Duisburg.  Demenz ist für viele noch immer ein Tabu-Thema. Im Duisburger Café „Vergiss mein nicht“ können Betroffene einen geselligen Nachmittag verbringen.

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Kaffee, Kuchen und Gymnastik

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Tabu-Thema Demenz

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Routinen im Alltag

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