Vergiss mein nicht: Duisburger Café lädt Demenzkranke ein

Petra van Geldern, Eugenie Czarmecki und Lisa Büschleb (v.l.n.r) leiten seit über sieben Jahren ehrenamtlich das Demenzcafé „Vergiss mein nicht“ in Duisburg.
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Duisburg. Demenz ist für viele noch immer ein Tabu-Thema. Im Duisburger Café „Vergiss mein nicht“ können Betroffene einen geselligen Nachmittag verbringen.
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Kaffee, Kuchen und Gymnastik
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Tabu-Thema Demenz
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Routinen im Alltag
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