Telefonseelsorge

Warum der Chef der Essener Telefonseelsorge anders zuhört

Von Geburt an stark sehbehindert, mittlerweile blind: Werner Korsten hat 32 Jahre die Telefonseelsorge der Evangelischen Kirche geleitet.

Von Geburt an stark sehbehindert, mittlerweile blind: Werner Korsten hat 32 Jahre die Telefonseelsorge der Evangelischen Kirche geleitet.

Foto: Christof Köpsel / FUNKE Foto Services

Essen.  Werner Korsten hat 32 Jahre lang Menschen am Telefon Lebensmut vermittelt. Jetzt geht der erblindete Chef der Telefonseelsorge in den Ruhestand.

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Das größte Thema bei der Telefonseelsorge ist die Einsamkeit

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Sexueller Missbrauch von Kindern als schwierigste Herausforderung

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„Ich höre nicht besser als jemand, der sehen kann, aber vielleicht bewusster“

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Ein Drittel der Anrufer hat psychische Probleme

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