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Susanne Eerenstein ist Hospizseelsorgerin im Hospiz am Jung-Stilling-Diakonieklinikum in Siegen.

Susanne Eerenstein ist Hospizseelsorgerin im Hospiz am Jung-Stilling-Diakonieklinikum in Siegen.

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Siegen.   Susanne Eerenstein kümmert sich am Jung-Stilling-Krankenhaus Siegen um sterbende Menschen. Ein Gespräch über das Tabuthema Tod und ein Sterben in Würde

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Zur Person: Susanne Eerenstein 

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