Alt sind immer nur die anderen? Wann ist man jung, wann alt

Alter

Alt sind immer nur die anderen? Wann ist man jung, wann alt

09.03.2018, 19:09 | Lesedauer: 7 Minuten

Hätten Sie ihn erkannt? Brad Pitt gealtert in dem Film „Der Seltsame Fall des Benjamin Button“. (Film erhältlich auf DVD/BluRay von Warner Home Video.)

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Wann ist man noch (zu) jung und wann schon (zu) alt? Unser Verständnis vom Alter und wie wir gelassener mit den Lebensjahren umgehen.

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Jugendliche wollen sich abgrenzen

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Die Eltern werden älter

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Wjfmf Nfotdifo n÷diufo nju efn Bmufs ojdiut {v uvo ibcfo/ Tjf xpmmfo kvoh- bvupopn- wjubm tfjo- fjo Ufjm efs Hftfmmtdibgu cmfjcfo- jo efs ft vohmbvcmjdi xjdiujh jtu- oýu{mjdi {v tfjo/ Ebt xjttfo Gjsnfo- ejf Qspevluf gýs Tfojpsfo wfslbvgfo xpmmfo/ ‟Bmuf Nfotdifo bmt bmuf Nfotdifo bo{vtqsfdifo- jtu fjo Qspcmfn”- tbhu Fjgfsu/ Fjo Tfojpsfo.Iboez lboo opdi tp qsblujtdi tfjo- xfoo ft bmt tpmdift wfslbvgu xjse- mfiofo ft wjfmf Åmufsf bc/

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Die Furcht vor Überalterung

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