Motivation

Die eigenen Grenzen erkennen, um sie zu erweitern

Alexander Huber von den Huberbuam sagt in Michele Ufers Buch: „Es ist wichtig, dann, wenn es wirklich substanziell gefährlich wird, reflektiert genug zu sein und abzubrechen.“

Alexander Huber von den Huberbuam sagt in Michele Ufers Buch: „Es ist wichtig, dann, wenn es wirklich substanziell gefährlich wird, reflektiert genug zu sein und abzubrechen.“

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Herdecke.   Sportpsychologe Michele Ufer plädiert dafür, Limits genau zu erkunden. Er sprach mit Sportlern und anderen Höchstleistern über Grenzkompetenz.

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