„Mental Load“: Wie unsichtbare Aufgaben Frauen belasten


Selbst wenn die tatsächlichen Aufgaben im Haushalt unter Paaren gerecht verteilt sind: Frauen übernehmen deutlich mehr organisatorische Aufgaben – die oft übersehen werden. Wie man „Mental Load“ reduzieren kann.
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Essen. Sie leidet unter „Mental Load“, er versteht das Problem nicht. Eine Expertin verrät, wie gerechte Arbeitsteilung in der Familie gelingen kann.
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